Craig:
Craig walking with Ray of Hope children through Kawangware |
The porridge had been served, a cup
sitting before each hungry child in the younger class of 5-8 year
olds. The adults had left the room. The children had
been alone for a moment and as I rounded the corner there sat the children,
hands folded, eyes tightly shut, reciting a prayer of thanks in
unison. Once the prayer was completed, no one touched their
food. They waited patiently for permission to begin. Some had
more in their cups than others but there were no comparisons and no
complaining- just a concern that everyone had a cup in hand before beginning to
eat.
No
matter the urgency, when greeting someone for the day it is impolite to launch
into a discussion about the business at hand without first taking the time to
ask about the individual and his family. It’s surprising how often we do
not do this in the U.S.
Craig and a budding symphony conductor |
On
our way to the hospital the other day we saw a bus on the side of the
road. The driver was on the ground beneath the bus, the passengers with
raised voices crowded nearby. Our taxi driver chuckled and said, “there
seems to be a drama unfolding”. Apparently the bus had broken down
and the driver was trying to avoid refunding the passengers their
fares. Women were shouting for the driver to come out from underneath
the bus, hitting him with their packages and trying to pull him out.
Angela:
JOY
After our morning ritual of camp songs, all of the kids and
our group went to the homes of several of the kids. The children were so
proud to show us where they lived. It was heart-warming to see how some
families are not together because of blood, but because of
love. Some kids are living with classmates' family or other relatives, because
they were being mistreated or unwanted by their relatives.
Angela working on backpacks |
I was surprised at the distance some of the kids walk to get
to the Ray of Hope. One home we visited brought us to a lush green valley,
where corn, cabbage and other vegetables were grown. It appeared to be a farm
that was community operated. I believe it took us all by surprise because it is
so different from the hard-stoned dirt that we've been walking on for the last
few days.
Much to Evelyn's (Head teacher, who has been sick) surprise
we all went to her home, which gave the children an opportunity to see her and
give her a hug. Evelyn was so happy to see the kids, and got hugs from all of
them.
Kwame and Angela walking in Kawangware |
Today, we were to wrap up all of the activities of the week,
and give the kids their backpacks. The first surprise was the project that the
kids had been working on with Christina and Kwame. All week they had been
decorating this square, that they were told not to decorate the
middle. Today they received the square with reflective plastic in the center of
their decorated frame. It was heart-warming to see their reactions, because
most of them do not have mirrors at home.
Then there was the distribution of the backpacks. I reviewed
the journals that the kids wrote in my class and attempted to give them a
backpack in their favorite color. Inside the backpack was their journal,
pencils, erasers (they call them rubbers-British term), a blank journal,
coloring books, crayons, and a Warriors t-shirt. The joy that those kids
expressed, almost brought me to tears. They were so appreciative and expressed
their appreciation with hugs and repeated thank yous. One boy was so
overwhelmed by the Warrior's t-shirt that he began kissing it.
To wrap up Classy's class was the Afro-Hawaiian song and
dance, complete with hand-made hula skirts, and leis. There were two versions
of the Hawaiian song. The first version was the Hawaiian, and then there was
the African-Hawaiian version. It truly was a sight to behold, it was followed
with the Macarena, and then the cha cha slide, all in hula skirts and leis.
Today, was the day that made all of the work, planning, and
personal expense seem like a mild inconvenience given the joy that was on the faces
of the kids.
Kirsti:
Kirsti with Teacher Alfred, who is wearing a shirt that former Ray of Hope team member Josh Biddle gave him. Now if we can only replace that Cardinal's hat! |
I woke to the call of birds this morning, and there has been so much to sing out about all day.
As we walked through Kawangware today, we heard the usual "how are you" as we passed the children on the street. There is such a difference between our cultures. We don't ask strangers how they are. In fact, we hardly say hello. But here, in the heart of a slum in Kenya, the children ask, "how are you"? Of course I don't expect that they really understand the social implications of what they are asking.
But when the do ask, it's generally with a smile on their faces. They don't seem to notice, the way I do, the litter in the streets, the goats roaming around or the chickens picking through the trash. How are you? Many of the children at the Ray of Hope school will tell you they are fine. They were proud to take us to their homes today. They are proud to introduce us to their families. They are happy to be walking with their class and their visitors, through their town.
How are you? I am grateful to have learned so much from so many this week. My heart is full. I have so much to sing out about.
How are you?
Kirsti with Boyce and his daughter |
Robin:
Robin with Evelyn in her home |
Karen and Robin with Ray of Hope friends |
Today we walked for miles in Kawangware to visit the homes of many
of the Ray of Hope children. It is
always shocking to see this level of poverty but the children are so happy that
we come to visit them at their homes.
Two of the boys lived with their grandfather who has severe malaria and
can rarely work. Teacher Evelyn worries about what will happen to them when
their grandfather passes away. Juma, one of the boys, told me that he and his
brother do the cooking, and they can make anything, though there is rarely
food. I feel so inadequate and wonder
what I can do. Karen and I sponsor two children to go to school and we hope
each of the children will have a better future.
Karen:
It has
been a very full day as it was our last day in the classroom with the children.
This is usually the day that challenges me the most, because my North American
understanding of time and work kick in big time: what have we accomplished?
What do we need to finish before we leave? Hurry, hurry, hurry, time is running
out!
What my
Kenyan friends remind me is that doing is not as important as being. There will
always be unfinished projects, things that should have been done, items on the “to-do”
list that await completion. But the bigger question is: have I taken the time
to talk with someone, listen to the stories of their life, deepened the
relationship I share with them?
Glide and Ray of Hope enjoying a festive dinner |
Tea time! |
Today,
we deepened our relationships with our Kenyan friends by walking with the children
around Kawangware and visiting several of their homes. Children would come up
beside me as we walked and shyly take my hand. And soon they would point to
their home, to a friend, to an aunt walking by. They were so proud to share
their lives with us.
This
evening, we invited the Ray of Hope staff to dinner. We gave them gifts from
Glide and they gave us gifts from Kenya. We danced together, told stories, and
laughed hard.
It was a
blessed day!
Classy:
Classy enjoying manazi with tea |
Today was another full day. We wrapped up our curriculum with the
kids. We brought them down at the end of the day where we did our performance.
We had all the teacher, the clinic staff, and the cook come down and join us.
We made outfits for them and they were so happy to be part of the celebration.
It was a wonderful thing to see all the staff and kids dance to the Cha Cha and
the macarena. All in all today was a good day....good night sleep, here I
come!!!
Christina:
Over the course of 2.5 hours, with
the entire RoH Team, while accompanied by almost 50 students, we all took a
walk through the village and visited the homes of a few students - Bravin &
Sharon's, Oliver & Electine's, Richard, Faith & Treza's and Jack &
Juma's. What a privilege to have almost 50 tour guides through Kwangware!
I spent a lot of time with Oliver, Kevin, Richard & Bravin.
Christina handing out reflection projects |
I didn't realize Oliver lived with
Electine (their moms are sisters), or that many of the other children were
related. Oliver wants to be a lawyer and has a dog named Pinkey, who was
bartered for manual labor. He is exceptionally inquisitive, a clear
communicator, outgoing, proud to be a brother to two siblings, loves doing
somersaults and football, tells good stories about the hyena and the hare, and
loves to be photographed.
Also got to spend QT with Kevin, a
very quiet, gentle soul - who doesn't speak much English. Because of the
language barrier, the challenge of the week was how to show him love in other
ways besides using words. So after a handful of days with helping make his hula
skirt, gifting him an orange ring made of pipe cleaners made by Joy Bet, and
always scooting next to him on his stool when chatting with other kiddos on
that side of the room - a bond had been established and this walk was icing on
the cake.
Richard was a new buddy made today,
who is very quiet and shy, who asked (with Oliver chiming in) if I knew Naima. Naima
was originally intending to come back to Ray of Hope for her second visit, but
regrettably had to back out, which is how the opportunity presented itself to
me... Naima - both Richard &
Oliver have exceptionally fond memories of your time together, they reminisced
about your killer breakdance skills and remember songs you would sing with
them. You left quite an impression! You are missed here!
The children looking at their reflection |
Last,
Bravin (pronounced "bra-veen" with a rolled "r") was the
3rd new friend made on this excursion. This little guy, probably around 7ish,
is advanced academically - so even though he's a little peanut, he's in class
with the taller, stronger, older guys. He warmed up to me today and it
unexpectedly melted my heart. Like Oliver, he's also a great story teller
(ironically, another hyena and the hair story - but a different one), he lives
near a farm and explained all of the veggies that are grown (cabbage, corn and
an unfamiliar sounding green). He also learned many words in Ukrainian,
including "cabbage" (his favorite), "cat" and how to
pronounce "Christina" with the same rolled "r", which took
about 20 minutes to master.
These kiddos were SO.
DARN. PROUD. to show us their homes. It was beautiful, actually! We
walked a long time together, it was super hot, and a new perspective about this
land was formed. They were little rockstars - walking around knowing all
of their neighbors and friends - and it was neat to experience Kwangware
through their eyes for a brief blip. Between Oliver, Kevin, Richard &
Bravin, I've never held hands with children for so long - and it was brilliant.
What a day. My soul is happy.
Kwame ready to greet our guests for dinner |
Great work you guys.You are a blessing to the world
ReplyDeleteWhat a joy it is to read your various daily entries of your experiences on this trip. I would love to be there with you. Thank you for taking the time to write so that the rest of us can learn. God bless you all!
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